5 Pieces of Advice for First-time College Players

Aug 26, 2025

One of my players left today to move into college.

He’ll be a freshman this fall.

Here’s the advice I gave him (and it applies to every new college player):

1. Drop the expectations

You don’t “have to” prove yourself in the fall.

I’ve seen players look terrible in the fall and end up All-Conference in the spring.

And I’ve seen players look amazing in the fall, then transfer because they never played.

2. Prioritize the human element

Coaches are more likely to give extra chances to players they like as people.

3. Keep the partying in check

You’ve never lived away from home before.

Make friends, meet new people, have fun…

But keep the main thing the main thing.

4. Attack the classroom

Get off to a strong start academically.

If baseball struggles out of the gate, your confidence won’t be tied to one thing.

5. FUN is the secret unlock

It’s not a drill. It’s not a cue.

It’s FUN.

The more fun you have, the freer you’ll play.

I’ve never met anyone who got worse by having more fun.

Play hard. Have fun. Keep perspective.

And remember: it’s not about being perfect in the fall.

It’s about who you become by the spring.

If your son is looking to get recruited, I'd love to hear more about your situation.